3. Why I Never Want to Get Married?

I see everyone in my class choose to get married and nobody would like to be single. Maybe my reasons can make you change.

I ever thought that I wanted to get married with a person who is similar to me in some ways: personalities, interests and different in others: age, education, etc. because I know nobody perfect at all and me too. I don't need a man that is handsome and rich but I need a person who is good, responsibility, calm, trustful, consistent and the most important he isn't gallant. Is there a person like this? Maybe. I think everyone is waiting for someone who's right for you and be with you always. I think so but the things that made me change my thinking are television, newspapers and magazines. There are many famous people have to divorce and separate though they got married for a long time and have children. They usually tell mass medias that "We don't have times for each other." I think this isn't the real reason. Maybe they have more reason that hard to tell other people or they find a new person that is better. I think getting married is a pain. If you get a good partner, you can raise your family happily but if you get not, you will get in trouble because I think most men's behavior before and after married are not the same such as before marriage they don't like to drink alcohol and smoke but after maybe they do because they want to make their society until they addicted. If you get married and have children, you will have more expense about diets, appliances, clothing, toys, children's education, etc. that made you have a problem about financial. In addition, you have to look after your family until you don't have times to take care yourself and your parents. When you want to do or buy something, you have to consult with your partner. Everything depends on your family.

I don't want to get married because I don't want to look after anyone in my family especially my children. I think it's very hard to teach them to be good. The world is changing and there are problems about economy, moral, crime, etc. By the way, I would like to have times to do my own things that I interest. I have no responsibilities to anyone else but myself and my mother. In my family, there are my mother and me because my father died and my relatives got married and live with their partner. I would like to take care my mother because she has to work hard since I was born so I want her to take a rest. In the future I want to get a good job and make as much money as possible to support my family. I want to get the life that I want. I think my mother want the same. If I get problems I have my mother, relatives and my close friends to be with me always and give me good advice. I think I never be alone!

In short, you don't need to believe me if you think being married and having children bring you happiness. Then you should not have to change your thinking.